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Greatness is not a destination, but a journey. What do you do for your family, career or community that you’re most proud of?
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I tryed to be there for my family, when and where ever possible, at birth, in dificult and hazardous situations, giving way to develloppement where i could, maintaining the house and surrounding, so love could come and hate would go...

I shoosed to be there in times of diseasse and ending of the paths of my beloved ones, because it is giving in hope to to reicieve, like forgiving to be forgiven, to love more than to be loved, to understand more than to be understood.

I always looked after the wood to keep the fireplace goïng, for the water to put on top of it and of course after the chaldron to carry it, safe...

As a scafolder I build the floors that were needed as high as I could go, for all the masons, carpenters, plombers and roofworkers for their safety as it was my own... I even got the scafold away on time for the groundworker to finish the tubes, no accident ever happend (to others) when I was there, i think even the executive performer should honestly agree, for the scafoldings around the ten thousend of homes we constructed, and all ships,tunnels,bridges, masts and stages i did as a builder, in the twenty years of my time of life for my community. Wich I can hardly be proud of accordingly... state of mine... It is hard to do something good for always, I gues...

Why is nurturance necessary? What else, beyond nurturance, is requiredfor internalition to occur?
There are several currently proposed explanations that are essentially complementary to one another.
Children are more likely to imitate a nurturant adult than a nonnurturant adult. Nurturant behavior is defined as care and consideration for another; as such, it fits the usual definition of moral behavior. Thus the nurturant adult caretaker provides a model behavior and is imitated...

The nurturant adult provides the child with an opportunity to see how his/her behavior can affect the feelings of others.
A child must learn to connect the needs, feelings and general welfare of others with the pleasurable or distressing consequences for them of his/her own actions probably occur when his/her mother or father becomes distressed and shows disapproval or expresses pleasure and gives affection...

The love-oriented or nurturant adult offers a strong inducement towards close interactions.
He/She is sougt rather than avoided, and this very closeness enhances the potential influence of the other explanations...

In addition to nurturance, a love-oriented style of disciplinning children seems to be required for extensive internalization of moral controls. This style of discipline involves day-to-day communication with the child-through reasoning, explanation, discussion, verbal disapproval of the child's behavior, inquiry into his/her motives, suggestions of appropriate ways to act, and praise for moral behavior.
The kinds of punnishment that might be used include the showing of disapproval, ignoring and short-term isolation rather than... ATTACKLIKE physical punnishment, "bawling out," ridicule, or shaming by public announcement of the TRANSGRESSION...

...What ever... Jung believed that a theory of personality could be enchanced by an UNDERstanding of the dreams, myths and spiritual aspects of the culture in wich the individual and his ancestors have lived.
Altough, like Freud he subscribed to the idea that unconscious forces are important aspects of personality, he divided the unconscious into two 2Spheres - 1the personal and 2the collective...
1-The personal unconscious reflects in the individual's (his/hers) particular life experiënces,while 2-the collective unconscious reflects the accumulated experiënces of the species.
Within the collective unconscious are archetypes - Universal thoughts, images or idea's - that are the result of the accumulated experiënces that have occured in the history of THE SPECIES; archetypes influance personality functioning for Jung is the integration of four 4basic functions of the mind..:
THINKING, FEELING, SENSING and INTUÏTION..! THNX to MOM and DAD

What job would you never want to have to do?

Diving for pearls, without the proper diving equipment, like digging diamonds without  support scafold, going up the mountain without mij shoes on, flying towards the sun on wax wings... i hope i will never have to do that.

"Beside the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone.
The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.." says: Lin Yutang

Luna says G Day;

What's your favorite thing about Monday?-_-Maandag-_- Lundi 00:00 Moon comes after Sunday.

Moon is Blue (*0*) I can do the washingup again, my favorite,with blue on a snowy day.

What is my favorite about water it is the source & origin of life. 70% of me is water.

It Is Clearing & Renewing & it heals & fertilizes, sister moon's favorite of mine...

- WISDOM -

Are you going to tune in to today's Super Bowl game? If so, where and with whom will you be watching? Who are you rooting for?

% seen I am rooted to the ground, more rootless than rooting for, sort of square root4 I gues; so what to do on 

bowling alley..? burning candle's on Brigitta's day, Imbolc/Oimlec, stay in clean my own alley, party fertility & birth

& roling towards my own sleeping hole, after I finest the pancackes I am baking right now...care for any..? Super!

I wish, I hope, I ask for that alleyride, that mush is true...G'DAY to you to.

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 G'Day again;

Today sat.31 of jan. 2009 It's my Queen"s Birthday, she became 71 and she "Beatrix" is the 2'nd one on top of another after - on age - King Willem 2"nd who came to the trone and died there at the respectable age of 73.
With her two years full agenda we don't know when -succession- Prins Willem - Alexander will heir to the Trone.

Blindoe's says: congratulations your ~ Highness ~

G'Day;

In their natural habitat most AU. bush creatures are camouflaged. You can hear their call but unless you know where to look, you may find it difficult to see them easily. If you do cath a brief glimpse - they can disappear in an instant -
startled by your unwanted attention... How opposite is Cockatoo's medicine?
He calls you to him, proudly waiting for you notice his béautéy..!
The old AU. saying:"Will you Cockatoo for me..?" stems from the unspoken agreement between mobs of White Cockatoo's. When the bird go to ground to feed, one bird elects to sit at the highest vantage point to keep Watch.
If danger lurks he will send out the call to retead and the mob takes flight...
Cockatoo asks you today, to call his medicine. If you have something important to express right now or need to be noticed in some way, embracè```_`````_`````_`````_`````White Cockatoo medicine and let go out, proud and strong.
Call upon Cockatoo's "showy" nature to make big impression.
Alternatively you may have a person in your life with Cockatoo energy that is dampening your ability to shine or express Yourself..! If this is the case, thank them for the opportunitY to learn more confident stride.
Blend their confidence with your subtleness and watch heads turn...
Perhaps Cockatoo is asking you to observe your own energy with honestly.
Are you overshadowing someone else and is it time to take a more subtle approach..?
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What do you immediately notice when you meet a person for the first time?
Submitted by tumblingpufl.

Probable, probably, probate, possible, maby a handshake as probity probe; because a kiss can be a problem! hey said EYE.